Goodbye social media!
We have decided to end our relationship with social media. And it's not [righteous, pretentious, arrogant, fill in the blank with names we've been called in the last 24-hours]. We've had many thoughtful discussions around this topic for at least six months, not only with each other but with our families and friends. We have healthy conversations and discuss articles, documentaries and books on the subject. It's not a business strategy or a good idea for marketing. It's actually ironic that people are talking about it. Originally, Kevin wanted me to just share a photo of me on my couch with my cat and this Joni Mitchell song. I laughed so hard, tears leaked out of my eyes.
Instead, I'll explain my reasons and understanding of why we're embarking on this new journey without it. And if you really want the cat pic, text me (858-367-0636).
Our mission is to bring people together. How many times have you been at a gathering or just dinner with a close friend and they’re on their phone, or worse, scrolling social media? Rarely does your phone add to the experience (unless you're about to put on a great playlist).
Focus. We think we can do our best work by saying "no" to more things and focusing our efforts on the deep work, which is bringing people together.
We are dedicated to mental health and well-being. It's concerning to see study after study showing that social media worsens anxiety and depression. Even the best in the world are held hostage by these toxic platforms. If we have the power to help control that narrative and support mental health, we’re in full support of not engaging in social media.
Being authentic and unique is a gift. Embracing my life, messy parts and all, and connecting with our community is a beautiful thing. Seeing half-strangers post about their relationships, kids, accolades, travel and experiences doesn’t always make me feel content with my own life. As Theodore Rosevelt said, “comparison is the thief of joy”.
Let’s truly be connected. Social media can be a paradox where we can feel so in-the-know, so in touch, but also extremely lonely and sad. We want to actually be there for you when you want to connect.
Be intentional with our time and life. I want my life to be filled with goodness, to bring in the values, the things, the inspiration, and the people who help me live the best life. For me, it’s deep in our hearts, takes thought and intention and is much harder to access than just clicking an app.
To be honest, this is both a personal journey, and a professional exploration of who we can become without social media. I have so much more to say on this topic and I'm sure you do too. I hope we can have a conversation about it. If you do want to chat more, you know where to find us and how to get a hold of us.
