The Art of the Invitation
Written by Lindsey Chronert
Have you ever received an invitation that was so compelling you couldn't refuse it? What was it about that invitation that captured your attention and sparked your curiosity?
The invitation is often dismissed as a formality. Or, in some cases, designed and sent in a rush. But it holds far more significance than a simple piece of paper. It’s an act of persuasion. It’s the beginning of a conversation. An invitation is not just a medium for conveying event details. It’s a preview of what’s to come.
The role of the host begins at the moment of first discovery. Every element of an invitation must be considered. What information is included in the invitation? Who gets one? Who doesn’t? How can you create anticipation? How can you extend hospitality beyond the boundaries of tradition? How do you create space for everyone to feel welcomed and valued? It’s important to include the what, when and where—but the challenge is to answer the why. Why are we gathering? How can you craft an invitation that embodies our deepest yearning for connection and community?
First impressions matter
Amaryllis Paperie
An excellent invitation grabs attention from the moment it’s received. It feels like a gift from the moment you open your mailbox. There are many ways to make it feel special. Consider unique packaging, hand-written calligraphy, custom stamps, colored paper, letterpress, wax seals, pressed florals, various textures, and how it feels in your hands. Personalized invitation suites are the best way to kick off the party.
Clear is kind
Cherree Berry Paper
It goes without saying, your invitiation should be clear and concise. Of course, it’s important to cover the who, what, when, where, and why without any confusion. However, in the examples above, Laura and Matthew give their guests clear instructions on gifts and children. They don’t want either. They want their guests to come and enjoy the event. On the right, this couple gives their guests strict instructions on what to wear to the event: island cocktail chic, in the sand, and no black, grey, or all-white allowed. It’s a party, dress like it! This is your opportunity to tell guests what to expect.
A preview of what’s to come
Love Me Do
Emily Baird Design
The design should be compelling. It's a reflection of the event's theme, mood, and personality. Whether elegant, playful, or minimalist, the design sets the tone and builds anticipation for what's to come. The design on the right outlines a lovely garden-styled wedding weekend in Palm Springs, including a sketch of the estate and a heartfelt letter to the guests honoring their attendance. The design on the right grabs your attention with the design. A playful invitation to an evening of martinis, dinner and dancing under the stars.
Tell a story
Madeline Woods
The Fancy Cat Studio
It could be through the design, imagery, elements of the invitation, schedule of events, or choice of words in an invitation. It engages guests and draws them into the narrative of the event. It helps tell the story. On the left, the couple included black and white images of the family farm where the wedding was held. On the right, the imagery lends itself to a wedding on a farm in the Pacific Northwest.
Make it interactive
Samantha Meyer
Ice Press Pond
This could be a simple creative prompt that invites guests to contribute their own ideas or stories, which fosters a sense of co-creation. Include a link for additional information or RSVP. This could be a song suggestion, well wishes for the couple, or dietary information. In the invitations shown, the one on the left is fun nod to Greek and Spanish heritage. It’s interactive and shows that a diverse group of people will be in attendance speaking multiple languages. On the right, this couple sent wildflower seeds to spread joy. A sweet and memorable token of sharing love.
Make it memorable
Handsome Love
Swell Press
An excellent invitation doesn't just convey information; it evokes emotion. Whether it's excitement, curiosity, or nostalgia, it sparks a feeling that lingers long after the envelope is opened. It should encapsulate the spirit of the gathering and serve as a tangible connection to the experience.
An invitation isn't just a formality. It's the beginning of an event. By infusing each invitation with thoughtfulness, creativity, and personalization, we set the stage for a gathering that transcends the ordinary and fosters genuine connections and meaningful experiences.
